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Mostlycichlids Cichlid Specialist

Posts: 4507
Age: 32 Location: New Mexico USA Favorite Fish: Jaguar Cichlid
 | Subject: Mostlycichlids Life Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:05 pm | |
| Well I am sure some have noticed I have been like a ghost around here. I figured my friends needed to know whats been going on. Well to start I am getting a divorce after 13 years for starters. I am also moving her out and am moving myself. I just got a promotion at work and have been working my ass off. I have a new girlfriend and I have been spending a lot of time getting to know her and her kid. I am sort of between her house and my moms right now so internet time is sparse. I have internet on the cell phone but its not the same.
Anyway I have seen some questions with contests and mods etc....PM me I will walk you guys through anything, wake me up sometimes. Members I hope to do some advertising in September and we should see a rise in population and hopefully new sign ups so don't be bummed it is slow, I know and I assure you FWM is going to get our name out.
Other than that I don't have much I am bummed with life, love my hobby and hope to be seeing a lot of you more often. _________________ "There he goes - one of God's own prototypes - a high powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die".
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
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saint_felony The Turtle Whisperer

Posts: 1902
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:54 pm | |
| It's all good. We'll keep the lights on for ya. Sucks though. Make with the PM or something if you need anything. |
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Wyomingite Fish Wrangler

Posts: 1654
Age: 43 Location: Wonderful Windy Wyoming Humor: "I drank what?" - Socrates Favorite Fish: I won't choose and ya can't make me!
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Wed Jul 07, 2010 11:02 pm | |
| All good, Paul. Life has a way of happenin' to us whether we want it to or not...LOL. Believe me, I know.
Ivan _________________ One can never have too many fish tanks.
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Grumpa Master Profiler

Posts: 1211
Age: 39 Location: cichlid world Humor: Not often Favorite Fish: tanganikian
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Thu Jul 08, 2010 8:14 am | |
| No problem Paul , you need anything let me know. I will do whatever I can in my power. Wish I was superman though lol!!! _________________ LIFE IS SHORT, LIVE IT LIKE THERE IS NO TOMMOROW!!!!
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Celticwraith FWM Graphic Designer

Posts: 555
Age: 44 Location: Ontario, Canada Humor: Some times! Favorite Fish: All the ones I have.
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Thu Jul 08, 2010 6:32 pm | |
| Sorry to hear your marriage is done, but it sounds as if things are not all bad. I to have not been able to get much time for the site, but it looks as if the others have it all under control. All I can do is wish you luck with everything. _________________  |
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Mostlycichlids Cichlid Specialist

Posts: 4507
Age: 32 Location: New Mexico USA Favorite Fish: Jaguar Cichlid
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Fri Jul 09, 2010 7:24 pm | |
| Thanks I appreciate all the support. _________________ "There he goes - one of God's own prototypes - a high powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die".
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
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dwarf cichlids in Tucson Member

Posts: 156
Age: 52 Location: Tucson Az Favorite Fish: Apitogramas as well as South American Dwarf cichlids cory cats and tetras discus and angelfish
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Sat Jul 10, 2010 9:20 am | |
| Hang in there my Grand father always asked me what do youm do when you get thronw by a horse? You get back on I have found that to be very true life is the same way.I a have a great lady in my life now who loves this hobby as much as I do. |
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dirtydawg10 Global Moderator

Posts: 2950
Age: 39 Location: Connecticut Favorite Fish: Severum
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Mon Jul 12, 2010 1:12 pm | |
| Sorry to hear that your marriage is not working out, Paul. It will hopefully work out for the better for you though. At least it sounds like your career is going well right now. Good luck and keep your head up. We're here for you. |
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Mostlycichlids Cichlid Specialist

Posts: 4507
Age: 32 Location: New Mexico USA Favorite Fish: Jaguar Cichlid
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Mon Jul 12, 2010 4:41 pm | |
| Im hanging in there, just got her moved out now I got to get the house fixed up and cleaned so I can give keys back. _________________ "There he goes - one of God's own prototypes - a high powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die".
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
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WhiteGloveAquatics Member

Posts: 134
Age: 31 Location: Chicagoland Humor: raunchy and mean Favorite Fish: Discus,Rams,Angels,Dwarf cichlids,tetras oh and flathead catfish
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Wed Dec 01, 2010 5:15 pm | |
| that sucks. Doing any better?
My wife always tries to throw the divorce card in but im too big of an A%^HO&# to sign em. I couldnt imagine life without my wife but then again I can lol. Time heals all, if not atleast it gives you an excuse to go postal.
seriously though, life goes on, my grandparents split 10 years ago after 50 years together, they arent doing well but they are doing great without eachother. Life isnt always greener but atleast the sun rises and sets the same every day.
Hope its getting better for ya, mate. |
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Mostlycichlids Cichlid Specialist

Posts: 4507
Age: 32 Location: New Mexico USA Favorite Fish: Jaguar Cichlid
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Thu Dec 02, 2010 3:58 pm | |
| Hu good bs thread to bring back.... A lot has happened. My girlfriend turned into a money grubbing psycho bitch, we split up a couple times. I ended up having to call the cops on her to get my stuff that was in her house...etc...etc. My ex wife and I are back together. Will probably not get married again but we are "together" Life is pretty good, roadblocks are a way of life just got to take it one day at a time cause tomorrow is never promised to us. _________________ "There he goes - one of God's own prototypes - a high powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die".
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
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WhiteGloveAquatics Member

Posts: 134
Age: 31 Location: Chicagoland Humor: raunchy and mean Favorite Fish: Discus,Rams,Angels,Dwarf cichlids,tetras oh and flathead catfish
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Fri Dec 03, 2010 12:18 pm | |
| Yep, pure truth.
Marriage is a piece of paper when it comes down to it, Common bond is nothing paper can justify. |
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Wyomingite Fish Wrangler

Posts: 1654
Age: 43 Location: Wonderful Windy Wyoming Humor: "I drank what?" - Socrates Favorite Fish: I won't choose and ya can't make me!
 | Subject: Re: Mostlycichlids Life Tue Dec 07, 2010 10:41 pm | |
| Well, hope it all works out with ya Paul. And I can definitely understand the not getting married to the wife again part. As much as I love mine, if we split up and got back together, don't think I'd marry again. I've dated my share of money grubbing psycho bitches, so I know exactly how that all goes. On the other hand, I'm sure some of them decided I wasn't exactly what they thought they were gettin' either, LOL.
Ivan _________________ One can never have too many fish tanks.
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